Inclusive Planning for Straight Weddings

By DJ Justin Warwick from DJ Enterprises Mobile Disc Jockey & Photo Booth

When planning a straight wedding, it is important to remember that not all of your guests may identify as straight. It is crucial to create a welcoming and inclusive environment for everyone, including your LGBTQ guests. Here are some tips on how to plan a straight wedding that is inclusive of all:

Use gender-neutral language

Instead of using terms like “bride and groom,” use more inclusive language like “partners”, “couple” or “Newlyweds.” Have the DJ use language while addressing your guests like, “Friends and Family” instead of “Ladies and Gentleman” for instance. This shows that you are acknowledging and respecting all types of relationships.

Choose an inclusive venue

When selecting a venue, ensure that it is inclusive and welcoming to all couples. Check if the venue has experience hosting LGBTQ weddings and if they have any policies or procedures in place to support inclusion.

Consider gender-neutral attire

Encourage your wedding party to wear attire that is gender-neutral. For example, bridesmaids could wear suits or tuxedos instead of dresses, and groomsmen could wear skirts or dresses if they feel comfortable. This allows everyone to express themselves in a way that feels authentic to them.

Be mindful of traditions

Some wedding traditions may not be inclusive of LGBTQ couples. For example, the traditional father-daughter dance may not be applicable to same-sex couples. Be open to modifying or omitting traditions to ensure that all guests feel included and valued.

Communicate your values

Make it clear that your wedding is inclusive of all guests, regardless of their sexual orientation or gender identity. Include a statement in your wedding website or invitations that shows your commitment to creating a welcoming environment.

Choose LGBTQ inclusive vendors

Supporting LGBTQ-owned or operated vendors or vendors that proudly support the LGBTQ community can show your commitment to inclusivity. When selecting vendors such as DJs, photographers, caterers, or florists, consider LGBTQ-owned, operated or supportive businesses.

Use gender-neutral restrooms

Ensure that all guests have access to gender-neutral restrooms. This can be achieved by either designating existing restrooms as gender-neutral or providing temporary gender-neutral restrooms.

In conclusion, planning a straight wedding that is inclusive of LGBTQ guests is all about being mindful of the needs and experiences of everyone involved. By following these tips, you can create a wedding that celebrates love in all its forms and provides a safe and welcoming environment for all guests.